During the past 18 months of the pandemic, I am here to tell you that, for most of us, working from home has not only increased our work productivity and mental health, but also it has improved our shitting habits. Being able to listen to your body and shit whenever…


Client’s Tale.

Who the fuck wants to fuck a scarred asshole? Some may find it hot, others may not even notice (“a hole is a hole”), and others, like myself, may be turned off by one.

Let’s start from the top — the top of my bottom. I had prolapsing…


Sex sells except when it comes to, well, sex care. It’s not every day you find a celebrity or influencer who is comfortable putting their name behind a sex care brand. Yes, it’s becoming more common, and I (selfishly) couldn’t be happier to see this progress. Which is why I…


Client’s Tale.

I feel discomfort while I’m bottoming. Nothing crazy, but enough to make me avoid anal sex at nearly all costs. Independently, I recently began experiencing some other gastrointestinal issues that prompted a colonoscopy. The findings were not overly helpful, but after the procedure, I wound up developing an…


What’s the most important requirement for enjoyable, pleasurable, and successful bottoming? Is it the skin in the anal canal accepting what is being inserted into it or is it the underlying muscle in your anal canal that must fully relax? Could it be both? I’ll ask you another question. Let’s…


Client’s Tale.

Ten years ago, with a rougher-than-usual partner and a thicker-than-usual cock, my asshole split. A literal tear occurred and holy shit did it fucking hurt. The scene was bloody and painful, and I would never wish it on my worst enemy. Even worse, it fucked up my relationship…


Client’s Tale.

While my fissure gently weeps.

I can always trust my ass to be up for any task — whatever or whomever may come its way. But many moons ago, my booty finally broke down. It happened when I got overly confident one evening. Surprisingly, it wasn’t even a…


Client’s Tale.

I have a fucking grape on my asshole. Not literally, of course. But I do have a big piece of who-the-fuck-knows that recently appeared after some amazing bottoming (if I don’t say so myself). But before I go any deeper, let me frame the situation: my precious hole…


The Peloton craze skyrocketed during the pandemic (if you were able to even get your butt on one), but what no one realizes is how their pelvises are being transformed forever by riding them so often. The pelvic floor is responsible for all these anatomical changes, both good and bad…


Client’s Tale.

Every single time I get fucked, I feel the urge to piss. No joke. And that’s not really the best sensation I want to be experiencing. I want the mind blowing, fuck-me-in-the-ass-and-fill-me-up-with-all-your-gooey-warmness kinda sex. You know what I’m talking about. However, my bladder instead feels like it’s going…

Dr. Evan Goldstein

NYC Gay Surgeon discussing ASS: A\rt, S\cience, and S\ex www.bespokesurgical.com/

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